Joined: Sat Apr 02, 2011 12:29 pm
Location: the Netherlands
|You continue to miss , disregard or choose to obscure several relevant issues rocketdog .
This game is played by all kinds of people , emotionaly sturdy as well as vulnerable/delicate , self-asured as well as uncertain , intellectualy agile as well as less so , fiercely independant as well as easely swayed , able to resist peer-pressure and conditioning alike or highly vulnerable to both , grandparents as well as children , men and women , boys and girls , from every walk of life . How each and every single one of them would ( or should ) respond , react or feel when being hood-kicked will , without a doubt , be quite differen than how YOU would , for the simple reason they are not rocketdog . Since there is no reason , rationale nor requirement to be or become a rocketdog-clone , your presumed ( for reasons that it has not hapened yet , so how would you know ) reaction to being hood-kicked is completely irrelevant in this instance . I suggest you weigh that fact .
You seem to asume that all neighbors of the hood-kicked person would by default be aware this has hapened imediatly and disregard other options . I have several questions for you to mull over .
1) Do you put every single friend , who hapenes to be a neighbor as well , on your budy-list ?
2) Do you check for possible mutations in your neighbor-list each and every time you log in , in order to check for possible mutations that may have occured during your absence ?
3) Would you necessarily be aware of mutations taking place while you ar on-line , asuming the hood-kicked neighbor is not ?
4) Do you keep and maintain a back-up list of all your friends-neighbors as well as all your non-friend-neighbors at all times ?
5) Do you reguraly cross-reference your back-up list with your current neighbor-list to double-check for mutations you might have missed ?
6) Can you be absolutely certain that you will detect mutations in your neighbor-list immediately as it hapenes , even when you are off-line ?
7) Do you have equipment or soft-ware installed or other means in place , to be able to differentiate between hood-kick induced mutations in your neighbor-list versus mutations occuring for other reasons or by other means , either informing you in real-time or at a later date , independant of information received from third parties ?
Can you contact all your neighbors by e-mail or otherwise out of the game ?
9) Can each and every one of your neighbors contact you by e-mail or otherwise out of the game ?
10) Can you be absolutely certain you would be able to contact any neighbor disapearing from your neighbor-list , to inquire the reason for this occurance , taking into account that a hood-kicked person may leave the game imediatly after , and may refuse to speak with you and every other member of your hood because of it ?
11) Can you prevent the owner of your hood to use hood-kick ?
12) Can you be absolutely certain that each and every one of your neighbors can truthfully answer all previous questions with a definate yes ?
13) Can you truthfully answer all previous questions ( including 12 ) with a definate yes ?
If there is even one of the above questions you can not truthfully answer with yes , you will not be able to detect abuse of hood-kick in your hood in every case ( except when you are the owner ) . If there are several questions above that you can not truthfully answer with yes , you would not be able to detect abuse of hood-kick in your hood in most if not all cases ( except when you are the owner ) . You have no means to detect hood-kick abuse in any but your own hood other than hearsay
I do not in any way dictate how any-one should respond to being bullied .
I do not in any way dictate how any-one should respond to being hood-kicked , like you do with some force , and never will .
The victim of bullying is NEVER responsible and can NEVER be held accountable for being victimized . To suggest such a thing is deceitfull or at best naive .
My past is irrelevant for as far as my reasoning is concerned .
The way you disregard gmz 1023's post is highly distastefull . You can not know what thought has gone into that statement . What you are doing here is bullying .
I hapen to belong to another *old* hood that has been prominentely and continuously present in the Nexus list throughout MOULagain . There are no visible or audible leaders in that hood . There is no hierarchy and every-one is welcome in principle . Every member can bring in new members of their own choice , and are allowed to do so . In other words there is TRUST . We have had no problem with griefers in our hood since MOULagain is on-line that i am aware of . ( i asume i would )
I would advice against having a evaluation-commission in hoods on general principle . Such authority would act as a bully-magnet to infiltrate , manipulate , convert , and used to advance the bullies agenda . The choice is offcourse to the members of that hood to decide . This is however off-topic so i will keep it at that .
I have noticed some disturbing trends in your posts . You have so far not offered a SINGLE well thought-out cardinal argument for the need nor desireability of hood-kick , despite the fact i have asked for it several times . You are arguably strongly in favour of hood-kick but fail to offer ANY explanation even marginaly informative to the why of that . Again despite the fact i have asked for it seceral times . There are numerous questions that demand answering brought up by me in my earlier posts . You have cleverly circumvented EVERY crucial issue and concern , while going to some lenght and considerable eloquence into the trivial and/or indeed the irrelevant . In other words , you are burrying some rather serious issues under the carpet , without offering an explanation or rationale for doing so . You are bullying gmz1023 for no apparent reason ( apart from agreeing with me ) . Have you some-how obtained the occult talent te determine how much thought has gone into that short statement of opinion ? In reality that statement offers no clue how gmz1023 has arrived at that opinion AT ALL . You even dare to not only challenge but JUDGE gmz's intelligence as below parr ( in your opinion ) , if that would be relevant to begin with , and utterly discredit/disregard gmz1023 by doing so . You have no right , justification or even a reasonable motive to pound gmz1023 in the dust like that . I resent it . Your efforts to obscure and circumvent the concerns i brought up are deceitfull and manipulative in my opinion . I will not sit idle or accept this , and i am not giving up or cower untill i get some answers . My previous post boiles down to a fairly simple question :
* Do you desire this un-needed , loathsome , perverse , designer bully-toy so bad , that you would even risk exposing yourself as a consumate bully , in your eager pursuit to get it ?*
I did not expect any-one with some measure of common sence would answer that question with a whole-hearted YES . I asumed that if any-one had what-ever other motive to be in favour of hood-kick would AT LEAST very....very carefully examine my questions and concerns , comming up with some SERIOUSLY PRESSING and IMPRESSIVE arguments to support it , or change their minds . I read your post as a cleverly obtuse YES rocketdog .
On a side note : I am not interested in any formalized offer of friendship from any-one , most often than not , that offer is false , as well as it is one recognizable indicator of a bully trying to real you in . I do not choose my friends by any means . I prefer to rely on the messy , wan-ton emergence of unexpected mutual sympathy that may seem in-efficient to you , but works remarkably well . I have yet to discover any endearing qualities , that would peek my interest , in you , so i choose to decline .